Sexy costumes can be so fun!
If you have ever considered wearing sexy costumes to spice up your relationship or just for desire, and have dropped that idea because you feel afraid of other people’s opinions, this article is for you. Mostly, because we want to help you change this conception and embrace your desires.
Sexy costumes for women can be a delicate matter because many people have a preconception regarding this practice, and think that if you wear a sexy costume, you will automatically look vulgar.
However, this is an old-fashioned thinking and must be rethought. After all, there is nothing wrong with dressing up, creating stories and using resources to spice up your relationship, or just have fun and be adventurous for a change.
Thereby, in this article, we have selected some topics on how you can wear sexy costumes without being vulgar.
5 tips on how to wear sexy costumes without being vulgar
Do some research
If you have been in a relationship for a long time and you feel that you’re falling into a routine where everything is boring and that you don’t really know what to do to spice things up, start doing some research. You know that you have the desire to revive that old flame and you know that dress-up and creating stories, using sex toys and other resources, is something you can do to achieve this goal.
Search on the internet, talk to friends, get opinions, but don’t let that affect your decision, and find out what you like and how you like it. And also, what you don’t like! It’s important to do only the things that you are comfortable with.
Dialogue is the best way!
If you have done your research and still haven’t talked to your partner about it, it’s time to do it!
Talk to your partner, and see if the whole idea of role-playing and wearing sexy bed costumes with him is a possibility that you two can explore together. If you’re both excited about the possibility, then you can start preparing for this moment.
It’s important to be open-minded and discuss the limits, the things that will turn both of you on, and how far you can go to make everything good for both.
Don’t be afraid to dare
Once your communication is aligned, it is time to prepare for this moment. It’s essential that, once you have an idea of what you can do to make this moment special, you won’t be afraid to dare!
At this point you should already have a pretty good understanding that wearing sexy costumes is not something vulgar – on the contrary, it’s something intimate and very brave to do in a relationship. So, don’t be afraid to dare and take the best out of this exploration moment.
Choosing your sexy costume
If you have everything set up for this moment, you need to start thinking about your sexy costume. To decide your best choice, you have to consider yours and your partner’s desires and what will be a turn on for both of you. Once you choose your sexy costume, you’re practically set.
Here are some sexy ideas to you:
Prepare your special moment and have fun!
With the costume chosen, it is time to plan your special moment. For that, you can grab a great dinner, get ready and put the role-play that you created with your partner into action and have as much fun as you can, free from any kind of judgment about being vulgar or not.
Just have fun, enjoy the moment, and repeat the dose if everything goes well. And remember: you can wear sexy costumes without being vulgar! You just have to be comfortable and open-minded about it and enjoy the most of it.